Tea and Absurdities

When Life is a Many-Splendored thing

Give up defining yourself - to yourself or to others. You won’t die. You will come to life. And don’t be concerned with how others define you. When they define you, they are limiting themselves, so it’s their problem. Whenever you interact with people, don’t be there primarily as a function or a role, but as the field of conscious presence. You can only lose something that you have, but you cannot lose something that you are. 


—Eckhart Tolle  (via thatkindofwoman)

(Source: the-healing-nest, via awelltraveledwoman)

Please know there are much better things in life than being lonely or liked or bitter or mean or self-conscious. We are all full of shit. Go love someone just because; I know your heart may be badly bruised, or even the victim of numerous knifings, but it will always heal, even if you don’t want it to; it keeps going. There are the most fantastic, beautiful things and people out there, I promise. It is up to you to find them.

—Chuck Palahniuk (via soundtobeat)

(Source: hellanne, via soundtobeat)